JEALOUSY JEALOUSY WAT AV THOU DONE?

When I watched and read the court verdict to Maryam Sanda. I was shocked. Watching her cry for mercy really got me emotional. I was angry that the judge was not lenient and was probably influenced by the politically powerful father of the late husband, Bilyamin Bello. However, I decided not to write anything or talk much about this ugly incident. I took my time to make my findings and I was able to find out...

The man was actually married to a woman named Amina Shagari. They were so good together and everything was going on well, until Maryam Sanda came into the picture as the second wife. According to the first wife, she had to quit cos of the high level of Maryam jealousy, it was hot and very toxic.

Maryam was pregnant with Bilyamin child when the incident happened. She gave birth to the child in the prison. That means they had two children together.

The marriage was two years old and it was a rocky one. That night was not the first time they would be having issues.

This ugly incident happened cos the wife went through her husband phone and saw a nude and some incriminating chats and also saw the man desire to get another wife.

She was so angry that night and she said she was done with the marriage. She demanded for divorce papers and threatened to kill the husband or cut off the genitals if he refused to grant her request. The husband's friend was there for eight hours, trying to make peace but this lady just went berserk. She first broke a groundnut bottle in an attempt to stab the guy but they collected it from her. She went on to break the perfume bottle, but the husband collected it. Knives were collected from her several times. The friend that was there with them even got injured in the process. The only child in the house was crying but this lady was just too angry to listen. When the guys friend got tired, he left the house and called on another of their friends to come over. He came back the following day to meet the death of the guy. He had bite marks, stab wounds in the chest, close to the heart and in the genitals

Maryam Sanda called on her mother and brother and the maid to tamper with the evidences. They were all charged but it was later dropped.

At a point, Maryam was released on bail cos of health issues but unconfirmed reports have it that she went home and threw a birthday party for the child. It was the talk of the town.

With all these findings, I am sorry to say that I don't feel sorry for her. I am just sad because of the stain this has brought upon her family and on the two children.

This is a lesson for us to stop forcing our partners to be faithful. You can only try, you can't achieve anything with force. No man, no woman is worth dying for. There are so many ways you can treat his fuck up without getting violent with him.

Check yourself, be his peace and give yourself peace of mind.

I am not in support of the guy's infidelity but killing him was not the answer. What was she thinking? Getting angry for hours and running wild all over the place.

Jealousy ruins trust, distrust ruins marriages,

Jealousy is a demon in action.

Post-conviction drama After the judge convicted her, she fled the dock while wailing. It took the intervention of her family members, court and correctional services’ officials to restrain her. However, every effort to stop her from wailing failed. Amidst her wailing, she was heard repeating: “Inna Lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji’un”, a part of a verse (2:156) from the Qur’an which translates to “Indeed, to God we belong and to God we shall return.” She was also heard saying, “I was fasting and praying … Ya Allah, why?” Several women were also heard or seen wailing after the conviction, with one of them even walking up to the dock where the convict was held before the judge ordered court officials to send her back.

Sentencing and more drama While passing the death sentence on the convict, the judge held that “Justice to the society and to the deceased Bilyaminu, outweighed the other element of the justice to the defendant, Maryam Sanda who should reap what she has sown; blood for blood. For it has been said that ‘thou shall not kill and whoever kills in cold blood deserves death as his or her own reward or punishment.”

“Moreover, the rising crime of mindless and senseless killings of men and women in our society leaves much to be desired and must be seriously frowned upon. Convict clearly deserves to die. Accordingly, I hereby sentence Maryam Sanda to death by hanging until she dies. “This I have done believing that justice in this case must be served and believing that the soul of the deceased, who has been crying for justice,

which I believe has also been attending proceedings in this matter, will now return to the grave and rest in peace,” the judge added. Dress-down for police Before rising, the judge gave the police a dress-down for the way they conducted the investigation. He said, “Before I put a full stop to this judgment, I will like to say a word or two about the conduct of the police who are involved in the investigation of this crime. PW4 (the Investigating Police Officer) mentioned how he took pictures of the body of the deceased and all the wounds on the body of the deceased but those pictures were never tendered by the police for whatever reason. “The only picture that was attached to the proof of evidence had undergone several photocopies which was deliberately done to fade out the photo image. This is painful and most unprofessional.” What now for Maryam Sanda? The judge ordered that the convict be remanded at the Suleja custodial centre pending when her rights to appeal have been exhausted. She has a right to appeal to the Appeal and Supreme Court. However, with the ever-increasing dockets of the courts, appeals of this nature can take years before they are finally put to rest. Similar cases Findings by Daily Trust revealed that from November 19, 2017, when Maryam killed her husband, a total of 53 others have been reported to have killed their spouses across the country. Thirty six housewives have reportedlly been killed by their husbands while 17 husbands have been killed by their wives.